Sunday, November 9, 2008

בס''ד

Reaching a Milestone

Last week, our grandson Nadav, reached a milestone in his young life. Nadav turned three years old and had a halake in Hebrew or upsherin in Yiddish party. He reached the point in his life where our tradition says now is the time to cut a boys hair.

Why at three and not two? The third birthday is a significant stage in the life of a Jewish boy. It is the time that he begins his Torah education, Nadav is in a Torani gan and starts to wear a kipa and tzitzit.

On an emotional level, a child is born a baby and totally dependent and grows and develops into a toddler ready to be trained. At th
ree he is ready to be more independent, separating from his Mother, visiting friends alone and going to gan. [nursery/kindergarten]. Cutting his hair at this time makes a very strong emotional impression. He knows he is growing up.

We learn that the mitzvah of cutting a boy's hair at three years old is derived from the mitzvah of orlah. The Torah says that if you plant a tree, all the fruits which grow during the first three years are orlah, off limits and can't be eaten. [Leviticus 19:23]. Just as orlah fruit is off limits for thr
ee years, we leave a child's hair alone during this time.

Nadav's third birthday was a special event for our family. For the haircut ceremony, it is customary for friends and family to take a snip of his hair. Nadav's two sabas had the honor of taking the first snips. His two saftas snipped next, followed by aunts, uncles, cousins, friends and even Nadav's older brother and sister took a turn.

With each snip, Nadav received many brachot to grow up to be a Ben Torah and to learn Torah with success.

The last cut went to Nadav's mother, who cut his long braid. When she showed him how long his hair was, Nadav's eyes just op
ened so wide and his smile was from ear to ear.

He proudly tried on his new tzitzit, that had a picture of a train with the aleph bet letters. Across the tzitzit it said A'nei Ben Shalosh. I am three.

Nadav enjoyed opening and playin
g with all his gifts. When the party was over, Nadav's father gave him a sweet boy's haircut. While he was cutting his hair, Nadav closed his eyes and fell asleep.

May we only shep nachas and simchas from Nadav!

Here are some pictures from the party.


















































































5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing about Nadav’s upsherin. He is a very sweet boy, blee eyin hora, and it looked like a lot of fun for everyone. May you all have much nachas from him for many healthy years!

The RapkinS said...

Mazel=tov
& really good reading
Thanks for keeping us on your update list
the RapkinS

rutimizrachi said...

What a cutie pie! May he be a ben Torah, whose love of Hashem and the Jewish people lights up the world!

Lois and Steve said...

MAZAL TOV TO ALL OF YOU AND MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE NACHAS FROM ALL YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY
Lois and Steve

Devorah Horev said...

I am Nadav's proud mother and I am the proud daughter of Miriam.Reading my mothers words about my son's "Halake" and looking at the pictures gave me great "nachas". Thank you for all of the warm blessings and B-H as it is common to say..."from your mouth to G-D's ears" .